So you're the village witch. Now what?
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It’s undeniable. You’re the Village Witch of your friend group. (Still not sure? Find out here. ) Now what?
Below is my advice for thriving as a vibrant, powerful Village Witch.
1. Cultivate Boundaries
We all need boundaries. But if you’re the go-to person for advice, healing, and general support then you’re gonna need some serious boundaries. And you don’t just need to establish boundaries — you need to continuously maintain them (that’s why I used the word “cultivate” — think of your boundaries like a protective hedge of roses and hawthorn trees. They need tending).
As the Village Witch, it’s crucial to remember that only you can set the boundaries you need.
No one else will do it for you, and you shouldn’t expect them to.
2. Indulge in Scholarship
Your practice will be informed and directed by your own intuition and experience. That’s something I love about herbalism & witchcraft — you are the highest authority. And yet, there is much knowledge to be learned from teachers and elders. Humans have spent their entire time on this earth amassing facts and understanding. Honor your practice, and your lineage, by investing in classes, mentorship, and time spent with teachers.
3. Practice your Craft
Here’s the thing: reading and studying and feeling it all so intensely isn’t enough. You need to get out there and practice. Get your hands in the dirt. Spend time gazing in silence at your crystals. Make a potion. Actually do the hands-on work. This is the only way to develop your skills.
4. Embrace Pleasure
You know the best thing about being a witch? We get to embrace all that feels good. We get to bring sensuality into rituals and into our lives. Engaging our senses helps to bring us into the present moment, which is key for spiritual activities. Also, following what feels good, even in small moments, is a great way to practice honoring your intuition.
5. Embrace your Power
So simple, yet so challenging. If you’re not used to speaking up, to owning your abilities, let this simmer. There will come a moment when your opinion or insight is needed. When you don’t wait to be asked. You will offer it, defend it, present it with power. This is the slow shift from being the person who “always knows” to being a leader. And witches, we’re leaders.
I’m sure you’ve developed some coping mechanisms as you’ve gone through life as the Village Witch. Care to share? Leave us your tips for thriving as the Village Witch in the comments below.
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